tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post317724342208095044..comments2023-11-01T00:13:08.088+08:00Comments on LaundryAmah: Kieran's 1st Day at Schoollaundryamahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00761221990462649530noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-16336426032830685492007-01-06T14:46:00.000+08:002007-01-06T14:46:00.000+08:00Good idea from Firehorse. Don't despair as you are...Good idea from Firehorse. Don't despair as you are not the only one. I don't trust my boy to give him money yet and he is the same age as Kieran.IMMomsDaughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06630929897532669840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-10921604839543197512007-01-04T20:21:00.000+08:002007-01-04T20:21:00.000+08:00aiyah, amah, teach slow slow la. this is a learnin...aiyah, amah, teach slow slow la. this is a learning phase for both you and kieran. actually kieran is very bright, just need alot of guidance. him acting like this is due to peer pressure. in school sure got wan ler... try firehorse mia method and see if it works or not. dont forget, always handle kids with lots of kesabaran... me also learning phase...Oscar's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07387981127368901675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-4172376516784115062007-01-04T16:45:00.000+08:002007-01-04T16:45:00.000+08:00firehorse-hey that's a great idea! thanks for ur t...firehorse-hey that's a great idea! thanks for ur tip! very much appreciated..thanks hor..<br /><br />allyfeel-tq! yes especially patience!!<br /><br />2crazydogs-hi thanks for visiting my humble blog! ya i guess it's the start of peer pressure<br /><br />milkmaid-ya me also long time no blog one time blog put up 3 posts!<br /><br />wmd-that's y this blogging is good ma, learn from one anotherlaundryamahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00761221990462649530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-87602763031082798552007-01-04T16:19:00.000+08:002007-01-04T16:19:00.000+08:00Happy New Year!
Firehorse's tips sounds good. ...Happy New Year! <br /><br />Firehorse's tips sounds good. Perhaps you could give it a try. Aiyoo I am really learning a lot here.WMD: Wife, Mother, Daughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02601300533807819891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-40735531754650742382007-01-04T12:13:00.000+08:002007-01-04T12:13:00.000+08:00Long time no read -- actually cause I was on leave...Long time no read -- actually cause I was on leave before Xmas up till now, and trying to catch you with all the happenings. You would think I would have more time when on leave, but I was with family, friends, makan makan etc....even lagi busy than compared to if I am at work....<br /><br />I have no experience with 7 yr olds, so difficult to advise here. But I would also probably do like what you do, explain to him and also provide consequences to him. He should be old enuf to comprehend?milkmaidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06401912573675393892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-45450344642866263162007-01-04T11:17:00.000+08:002007-01-04T11:17:00.000+08:00Laundry Amah, happy new year. Been visiting your ...Laundry Amah, happy new year. Been visiting your blog for awhile. Enjoy reading it coz it reminds me of my sister's boys. Be patient with Kieranlah, I think it's a phase he's going through.2crazydogshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10125192793464771859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-29330404757675572972007-01-04T11:06:00.000+08:002007-01-04T11:06:00.000+08:00Happy New Year to you Amah. May you be blessed wit...Happy New Year to you Amah. May you be blessed with loads of patience, love and hapiness. :)Allyfeelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14207281319069125131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-90727433060950638032007-01-04T04:27:00.000+08:002007-01-04T04:27:00.000+08:00Sorry Laundryamah if my 2 sen is too long, dun mea...Sorry Laundryamah if my 2 sen is too long, dun mean to sound like Miss Know-it-all.KopiSohhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392461180691427923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31254430.post-6909044748374643392007-01-04T04:24:00.000+08:002007-01-04T04:24:00.000+08:00He's still very young but can be made to understan...He's still very young but can be made to understand. Maybe he dun understand why you say cannot buy. So sit him down calmly and talk to him. Ask him next time he disobey you what type of punishment he think he should get? Let him come up with his own punishments, that way when he disobeys you again (believe me they will) you just implement punishment no need screaming until blue in face, very senang cause and effect, some more he the one made up his own punishment you implement it only. That way he ada control sikit (or the illusion of control) if I choose to disobey mummy then I am choosing to be punished. Write down the punishment that he has generated for you clearly and put it up somewhere he can see. Very fast they learn that punishment dun just fall out of the sky, their actions or their choices have consequences. When the time comes he will cry and plea and kick a big storm up but you dun have to get upset, in fact you become his ally, say "Mummy very sorry, I really dun want to punish you but I got no choice, we had an agreement and the punishments were set by you, not me, you choose to do _______ and you agreed that if _____ happen this is what the punishment will be".KopiSohhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392461180691427923noreply@blogger.com